Saturday, January 28, 2006

Day One in Idaho

Dscn1938Hard to believe that I'm writing this from Idaho, but after 6 hours in a plane and driving through some serious snow, I now sit by a roaring fire writing this here entry.  This place is absolutely beautiful.  This is Heather and I's first time out West.  Unbelievable.  The mountains are breathtaking.  While Heather's parents and Kirsten and Brian went into town to get fitted for x-country skiis, Heather and I got to ski (yes, we Floridians have our own x-country skiis) for about 45 minutes.  I forgot how much I love skiing.  The scenerey is truly spectacular (more pics to come).  The most striking thing to me is the absolute silence you experience.  It is good for the soul.  I'll try and post more about our trip since we got some free wifi here. 



We miss our girl Sydnie, but she is in good hands.  If you are reading this, please pray for my dad as he is in the hospital for some chest pains as of last night.  Hoping to hear more details by tomorrow morning.  Appreciate it.



Peace from Idaho. These are the pics from our room.  Quite a view.
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Tuesday, January 24, 2006

More on Blue Like Jazz

Link: Boar's Head Tavern: Rant On: Miller is Real. Deal With It..



Drugs, Jesus and the Questions Teenagers ask about both…

There are many things in life I feel inadequate to address.  I am making this post in attempt to both help me think through my thoughts as well as seek out any feedback from the blogosphere.  So here goes. 



Spent yesterday afternoon having an honest conversation with a high school guy who shall remain nameless.  His struggle is this…he’s heard all his life that drugs will ruin your life.  You’ll be the 40 year old guy, drooling in a chair, living with your mom, playing video games in between shifts at the local burger joint if you do drugs.  However, this kid’s brilliant.  His friends are brilliant.  Like off the charts IQ.  He’s been doing a fair amount of drugs and he’s doing great in school.  No slippage in grades.  No bad family situation.  Just a kid who thinks he’s in control. 



Now before you think I agree with his antics, I should preface that I don’t.  However, I am finding that the typical rationale given to today’s students may not be adequate in dealing with the drug issue.  As Christians, as the Church, I feel the need to have a better, more in-depth explanation of the “why’s”.  Do you not do drugs because they are illegal?  What if our country changed it’s stance on marijuana?  Okay for Christians then? 



What I keep coming back to is this… The Scriptures say a lot about drunkenness, but not drugs in particular.  However, it seems like one could take drunkenness to mean an “altered state of mind”.  If that is the working definition then anything that is used to bring about that state is against the Bible.  People have wine with dinner (myself included) without having the intention of achieving an altered state of mind.  One can have a glass of wine or a beer without being drunk.  I don’t think this holds true for other “mind altering substances.”  People smoke a joint to get the high.  They don’t smoke in the casual, after dinner, wine-sort-of-way…or do they? 



I write all of this to say that today’s culture is asking questions about this subject matter and we as the church need to have a deeper more thought out response than we currently do.  If our response is equal to the piece of circular rubber in the bottom of the urinal (sorry girl’s, no such fun for you) that reads, “JUST SAY NO TO DRUGS” then we are missing something.  We’ve got to have a better response than that.  We need a response that deals honestly, intellectually and theologically to the issues at hand. 



Any thoughts you have would be most appreciated.  Please write your responses while in a non-altered state of mind though.  Thanks for your cooperation.



Show the Way

For your viewing and listening enjoyment.  One of my all time favorite songs.  Lyrically rich.  Taps into all the right perspectives on life. 



Download wilcox.mov



Friday, January 20, 2006

The Big 3-0, Sea World, Book recommendation & a Heartbeat


IMG_4400.JPGIt has most certainly been too long since the last post. First things first...Heather celebrated her 30th Birthday on January 11! Because the big day happened to fall on Wednesday, which just happens to be a busy day for me, we celebrated on Friday. Day spent at Sea World (see pics). Not sure who was more excited, Sydnie or Heather? We had a fantastic day as a family. Proud owners of year passes now.


Here's my latest book recommendation. About every 2 years I do a teaching series that explores sex, dating, guys, girls, etc. with our high school ministry. I have always been very disappointed with most resources out there for Christians. However, that has all changed. You have to read this book.




"Real Sex: The Naked Truth About Chastity" (Lauren F. Winner)


I think what I love about this particular book is how well rooted it is theologically. It is much more than just a book about sex. It is a book about what it means to be fully human. What it means to orient our lives in a way that brings the most life. You really should check it out, regardless of your marital status.


Saturday of last week brought a Patriots loss (see pics) but a great time with Nate and Jess. Nate had never lost with those outfits...we jinxed the whole thing! We suck. Sorry.


Now it's Friday night. It's been a good, but long week. Very full work week. Grateful for the weekend. Great news though today...heard baby #2's heartbeat this morning. Very cool.


I really need to get back to a blogging discipline.



Friday, January 6, 2006

Ministering in a pagan, postmodern culture

Donald Miller has posted a helpful download on his site entitled "Thirteen Paradigm Shifts we encountered doing Christian ministry in a pagan environment..." Click this link to download the .pdf



Download thirteenparadigmshifts.pdf